Dima, I will talk like a son. My 19 years. Why would I COP?- considered his son adult, capable of taking responsibility for actions. Let just understand that this is an offense that suddenly did not want the same razdayetsya people on the bus, in College.
Why ignore that from my dad .? But just to influence the father can’t, Yes(!), it happens. And I am silent, because I think write my essay in 24 hours it is a male conversation, briefly and clearly.
Threatening to take to the orphanage – I’m threatening to send you to live in the basement.))) The truth seems to be . Shout that again the room is not cleaned, if the evening will not clean to sleep down in the basement. Then in the afternoon texting him SMS-” where are you? A cot for basement buy ?.”
Well, he’s with friends at the Mall walks….I ask a little bit, I’m not asking to wash to the point of sterility.
I also often throw up exclamation of “Lord, help me to raise him, give strength”. And also out loud,that would be son heard. This is when I want to scream at his son and calling him names. When only the emotions remain, and the right and kind words over.
And you are an atheist or not does not matter, the tolerance must be. Banal politeness.
What about the study if you are ready to get serious go to the Dean’s office . And ask for a retake – roughly press on pity, but let it be known to them that to chew on at night but the tutorial will be prepared and will pass. If you can prove that has ceased to be a quitter then give a second chance. They know how many greenhorns turned into white swans from ducklings. The people there experienced.most importantly don’t fail and learn.
About the tutor – I’m sorry for the rough comparison – it’s like an alcoholic the character he wants and can handle, and tutor are not needed. Now on the Internet a lot of tutorials. Look. Need a tutor for foreign pronunciation to to put. But for other subjects there are tests and exercises to test knowledge.
And I, too hard raising a son. I think that if him to dissolve systematische he did http://thecorridorofcertainty.com/2018/05/10/thesis-defence-tips/ overstreet and be lazy. But it’s not from my anger, and from his temperament. I told him so and say as long as you keep a tight rein, you standards. As soon as you relax the grip, so again clueless.
It is of my best intentions, because of the son’s heart aches. Because I know how cruel the world is and what traits the world needs . So prepare it as best we can.
Lenalena , age: 41 / 21.01.2018
Dima, Hello! Very sympathize with you. Only do not despair. Of course, you will not give in boarding,do not worry. Parents wish you only the best, sometimes you need to listen to them. But at the same time you have only one life, so don’t need to go into a profession you will go, as hard labor. Maybe you should reconsider the attitude to this profession? But if you don’t like their option, offer your. Only that it was more or less equal. You can look for a neutral profession.
http: www.pobedish.ru/main/roditeli read here.Should not parents be offended if the money,however, is not what to do.
Remember that no matter what profession you get, you still got the meaning. You should not treat yourself as bad because you don’t have to know everything and life can still get. http: www.pobedish.ru/main/samopoznanie read here. Try to at least talk with a psychologist about what’s bothering you. Why don’t you believe in God, He ever disappointed? Even scientists have proved Its existence, can watch online. And as if you did not belong to Him, Lord, you can’t leave and loves. At least try to address Him, after all, worse still will not. They are precious to Him)
I wish you good health, good relations and understanding in the family, finding the meaning of life,true friends, success in school, always in a great mood,lots of love, joy and peace in my life and all the best)you Guardian angel!